BREAK THE TIME LOOP!!

So everyone has a past, some have good old memories to cherish ,some have faded dark memories , filled with regret and sorrow.This past is like a shadow ,it follows you everywhere you go.Sometime you might want to have a time machine to go back in past , and change some of the things that you never wished to do but unfortunately you did.And what is that makes you different from others is that no two person can have the same past.The story line may appear similar but by looking closely, we can easily interpret that it is whole lot different.You cannot just shift+delete it , without storing it in your recycle bin which is so called your mind.Mind is a powerful thing thing, every action has a different consequence and with it come a memory, memory which can be linked to different situation, and our mind plays these memories in an instinct when we are struck in somewhat same scenario in any part of life.These memories can either devour you or can fill you with enthusiasm, energy, and passion.It only depends on how you think about it .If you think that memory was linked with failure and embarrassment , so every time when you will think about it , it will make you lethargic to do any work.You might think that what others will say,but the truth is , that no one except you have the time to think about yourself.They may talk about you but not all the time right.You will lose confidence which will ultimately leads you to failure. And this confidence will not grow in a single shot , it will increase exponentially with the success you will face in future.So this process can be metaphorically be treated as a snake and ladder game, in which your mind is your  token, and fear is your opponent ,and ladders are the good memories which will help you to reach the 100^th square quickly which is the ultimate success, but unfortunately there are some snakes in your way,which will always let you down in life.These snakes can be very venomous., venomous in the sense that it will always make you think about failure you experienced in past, it will squeeze out all that you have within and  will make you bend on knee, but remember your ultimate goal is the 100^th square ,the purpose of your life, and you have to reach the final square before your opponent reaches there because if it reaches before you, it will start playing mind games with you , you will always think that you will always get fail every time gonna try.Many of them quit this game because of failing many times before finishing the game or due to the fear of failure.But always remember that you are  born  a champion, tell this to your mind, “No matter what ever happens I am  going to win, if my failure is good, still I am the best.”Bookmark this think in your mind , whenever you feel low, whenever you feel to quit , whenever life gives you lemons, just turn back the pages and go to this bookmark and say it loud to yourself in the mind.Dont be shy, wear your failures as a badge of honour.This will not ease your problem you are facing , but will definitely fill you with courage to face the situation with a smile on your face.After all nothing is as important as the beautiful smile you have.World is full of darkness, and this smile of yours act as a purpose of torch, it not only helps you to reach your destiny , but also helps others and shows them their path. And do you know that your smile is actually contagious? each time you smile at a person, their brain coaxes them to return the favor. You are creating a symbiotic relationship that allows both of you to release feel good chemicals in your brain, activate reward centers, make you both more attractive and increase the chances of you both living longer, healthier lives.Living a life that is full of regrets is not a life at all.So just be happy , take your life like a roller coaster, which will face ups and downs, treat your past memories as a teacher and a good friend, recall them when you need help or guidance, think of them only in a positive way.Never go to the negative side of your brain.Yeah you heard right negative side, actually you can assume that good memories are stored in a bank account in a bank A, where as bad memories are stored in another account in a different bank B.And most of time we withdraw experience  by recalling the memories from bank B.Which is bad in a one sense or the other.Though you get more interest from bank B,that is you think about them most of the times just don’t take it out, untill you are old and have achieved your ultimate goal.Use the memories you have in bank B, only to guide others and to help them in case they turn to you for advice.Remember Success comes from experiences and experiences come from bad experiences, and every bad experience is linked with a bad memory which you faced in the past.Create memories ,don’t think of them in a bad sense,and  it’s life right,some days will be best while some will be just ok.No one have all the good memories ,face this reality and jot it down if you want .You might have heard about the famous line from the movie Kung Fu panda , “The past is history, The future is  a mystery,Today  is a gift , that’s why they call it the present.”.So what are you waiting for, my friend just go out and Carpe Diem(seize the day) , and look how the world is waiting for your trueself.Just don’t get struck in the time loop of your past,how bad it may appear to you.It’s only on you to try and win the battle between you and your subconscious mind ,if you only will leave it then no one can save you from drowning in the sea of regretfulness.Use your past only for getting directions in hard times, and for recalling the memories that you lived happily forever. As it is rightly said that the best teacher of your future is your past.Either it can make you or break you ,so the choice is yours.

Oh past just go away,

And don’t ever wish to stay,

You made me cry , whenever we play,

Filled me with regrets, in all my way

Held my hand whenever I wish to be great

Past recites,

With  a touch of delight

Hey dear , you have no clue

I m here for you,

For making you,

Instead of breaking you,

Have faith in mine

I want the best from you, to make you shine

Just wait for the moment when it’s right

To make you strong for the upcoming fight

And to show the world your true bright

Just think of me as your friend

And not merely as your unfortunate end.

What goes and never comes back..

The world never seems to be ending ,it always goes on and on , round and round, and life with all the ups and down, at one moment it is filled with all the excitement and surprises , making it jolly good but at the other it is dull and depressing. And theses twists and turns are important as they not  only provide thrill but make it an adventurous roller coaster ride.Imagine a world with all the people happy and with all the leisure ,will it make our world a better place to live in ? Answer is   obviously no as if we get all that we deserve , and there is nothing to fight for, then what will be the soul purpose of our living, .Actually the real pleasure we do get by travelling down the road, which ultimately lead to our destination, it's the journey which we count on , and not the destination , we should be less worried about the  success or failure, because our supreme goal to lead a happy life irrespective of the amount of money you have in your pocket.Remember a rich man can lead a sad life , irrespective of having all the leisure , whereas a poor can still be happy , leading a simple life without any tension. It's true with money comes the desire to earn more, to get more of it , and with that our lives becomes a bit more complicated.Complicated in the sense that , greediness grows along with it, and it continuously tends to increase as long as our desires for richness grows on.When we were small ,we acted in our own childish play .Life was not as much complicated as it is now,we used to play , sleep and study that’s all. We were not even touched by the evilness, we were surrounded with.As we grew , our brain developed , we got more educated, became more experienced and practical,but god knows somehow things became more complicated, life was not a fairy tale as we supposed to be when we were young .Instead of earning for a living, we started living for an earning.We became more of a machine ,working in shifts from 10 to 5 ,sitting infront of our computers, even doing overtime to get an extra cream apart from the milk.Even the social circle we use to have before, is now diminished to a point circle.Do we now even care to know who our neighbours are, to get to know them.Even our own life now is not as simple as we used to have.When was the last time you sat under the sky, gazing the stars and admiring its beauty with your loved ones?Do you ever get enough time to spend with your own family, your parents, spouse  and your children?Have you ever asked them what do they  really want from your side?.Yeah , money is important for the security and for earning a decent livelihood.But my question is what is the limit , after which we have to stop?We all start working from a very young age , and work till our late 60s,when  will we get time for ourselves?Most of our time has already passed , and then we retire peacefully, then ultimately wait for the death to arrive at our doorsteps and to take us away with it, leaving behind our body which had been torn out and tempered  from the stress and pains we endured throughout our life.So will you be happy even after that, have you achieved the eternal and internal happiness , you wanted all you life?.Your pursuit of happiness started with money but never ended completely right .Don't you ever want to live a life, a life full of adventures,to be unheeded,happy,near to the wild heart of life,to be young and wilful, to swim the wild sea,breathe the wild air,enjoy the sunshine, and sunsets, dreaming of a far better tomorrow , than today.Just think of it ,when someday you will get some free time from your hectic schedule.When our days in this world will be going to end, and the last recap you will  see, what do you want to see in that, it will showcase all your memories from the childhood till your death bed,your life will flash before your eyes for 7 minutes in a chronological order, will you cherish those memories, or will that make you guilty about not living a happy life, because you are the master of your own life, captain of your own soul, only you can change your  way of life, i repeat only you,and the moment you even want to change it, your time will be over,and nothing will be left in your hands, except the dead wistful past. So are you ready for this?

                                                               

Time flees, it never waits,

only remains the memories ,

memories in which you and i lived,

 we came from dust and then will return again,

All  my life I was living in a lie

And the saddest part for which I always cried,

Never got to know about my true self,before I died…..