BREAK THE TIME LOOP!!

So everyone has a past, some have good old memories to cherish ,some have faded dark memories , filled with regret and sorrow.This past is like a shadow ,it follows you everywhere you go.Sometime you might want to have a time machine to go back in past , and change some of the things that you never wished to do but unfortunately you did.And what is that makes you different from others is that no two person can have the same past.The story line may appear similar but by looking closely, we can easily interpret that it is whole lot different.You cannot just shift+delete it , without storing it in your recycle bin which is so called your mind.Mind is a powerful thing thing, every action has a different consequence and with it come a memory, memory which can be linked to different situation, and our mind plays these memories in an instinct when we are struck in somewhat same scenario in any part of life.These memories can either devour you or can fill you with enthusiasm, energy, and passion.It only depends on how you think about it .If you think that memory was linked with failure and embarrassment , so every time when you will think about it , it will make you lethargic to do any work.You might think that what others will say,but the truth is , that no one except you have the time to think about yourself.They may talk about you but not all the time right.You will lose confidence which will ultimately leads you to failure. And this confidence will not grow in a single shot , it will increase exponentially with the success you will face in future.So this process can be metaphorically be treated as a snake and ladder game, in which your mind is your  token, and fear is your opponent ,and ladders are the good memories which will help you to reach the 100^th square quickly which is the ultimate success, but unfortunately there are some snakes in your way,which will always let you down in life.These snakes can be very venomous., venomous in the sense that it will always make you think about failure you experienced in past, it will squeeze out all that you have within and  will make you bend on knee, but remember your ultimate goal is the 100^th square ,the purpose of your life, and you have to reach the final square before your opponent reaches there because if it reaches before you, it will start playing mind games with you , you will always think that you will always get fail every time gonna try.Many of them quit this game because of failing many times before finishing the game or due to the fear of failure.But always remember that you are  born  a champion, tell this to your mind, “No matter what ever happens I am  going to win, if my failure is good, still I am the best.”Bookmark this think in your mind , whenever you feel low, whenever you feel to quit , whenever life gives you lemons, just turn back the pages and go to this bookmark and say it loud to yourself in the mind.Dont be shy, wear your failures as a badge of honour.This will not ease your problem you are facing , but will definitely fill you with courage to face the situation with a smile on your face.After all nothing is as important as the beautiful smile you have.World is full of darkness, and this smile of yours act as a purpose of torch, it not only helps you to reach your destiny , but also helps others and shows them their path. And do you know that your smile is actually contagious? each time you smile at a person, their brain coaxes them to return the favor. You are creating a symbiotic relationship that allows both of you to release feel good chemicals in your brain, activate reward centers, make you both more attractive and increase the chances of you both living longer, healthier lives.Living a life that is full of regrets is not a life at all.So just be happy , take your life like a roller coaster, which will face ups and downs, treat your past memories as a teacher and a good friend, recall them when you need help or guidance, think of them only in a positive way.Never go to the negative side of your brain.Yeah you heard right negative side, actually you can assume that good memories are stored in a bank account in a bank A, where as bad memories are stored in another account in a different bank B.And most of time we withdraw experience  by recalling the memories from bank B.Which is bad in a one sense or the other.Though you get more interest from bank B,that is you think about them most of the times just don’t take it out, untill you are old and have achieved your ultimate goal.Use the memories you have in bank B, only to guide others and to help them in case they turn to you for advice.Remember Success comes from experiences and experiences come from bad experiences, and every bad experience is linked with a bad memory which you faced in the past.Create memories ,don’t think of them in a bad sense,and  it’s life right,some days will be best while some will be just ok.No one have all the good memories ,face this reality and jot it down if you want .You might have heard about the famous line from the movie Kung Fu panda , “The past is history, The future is  a mystery,Today  is a gift , that’s why they call it the present.”.So what are you waiting for, my friend just go out and Carpe Diem(seize the day) , and look how the world is waiting for your trueself.Just don’t get struck in the time loop of your past,how bad it may appear to you.It’s only on you to try and win the battle between you and your subconscious mind ,if you only will leave it then no one can save you from drowning in the sea of regretfulness.Use your past only for getting directions in hard times, and for recalling the memories that you lived happily forever. As it is rightly said that the best teacher of your future is your past.Either it can make you or break you ,so the choice is yours.

Oh past just go away,

And don’t ever wish to stay,

You made me cry , whenever we play,

Filled me with regrets, in all my way

Held my hand whenever I wish to be great

Past recites,

With  a touch of delight

Hey dear , you have no clue

I m here for you,

For making you,

Instead of breaking you,

Have faith in mine

I want the best from you, to make you shine

Just wait for the moment when it’s right

To make you strong for the upcoming fight

And to show the world your true bright

Just think of me as your friend

And not merely as your unfortunate end.